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the_one_leg_lift_sex_positionsSEX POSITION OF THE WEEK: MAN-ON-TOP SEX POSITIONS: GUARANTEEING HER ORGASM

 

In a healthy relationship, where you both talk to each other, it really shouldn’t be the case that the guy is worrying if the girl really did have an orgasm just then, or was that just a touch exaggerated? Guys do want their partners to have an orgasm – and this can put pressure on women too if they don’t want to ‘disappoint’. Explore sex positions to enhance her orgasm, and to help her come (almost) every time.

 

First off, we need to say something – yet again – that a lot of people still don’t seem to know or, maybe, accept: most women do not have an orgasm through intercourse alone. In other words: penis in vagina alone doesn’t do it for most people. Lose the phrase ‘vaginal orgasm’. Men and women both were taught, falsely, for too long, that the summit of coital bliss is the ‘vaginal orgasm’, the natural culmination of intercourse ‘as it should be’, and men and women both have come to think of themselves as substandard or sexually dysfunctional should this homey ideal elude them, as it usually does.

 

The clitoris is key, both the visible clitoris and the erectile tissue as it extends within the body, and which can be stimulated through the vaginal wall. Use foreplay, with your hands and tongue, so that she has an orgasm first even before you enter her, or is yearning for you inside, then choose sex positions which maximize clitoral stimulation, both with you penis and groin, and with hands and toys. Read more… 

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