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the_chair_wrap_sex_positionsSEX POSITION OF THE WEEK: THE CHAIR WRAP

 

This position, in which the woman is on top, is difficult but allows for stimulation of the G-spot and A-zone. To achieve this position, the man sits on a chair, with his legs facing forwards and his hands holding the sides of the chair for support, and the woman sits astride him, facing him. She then throws her legs over his shoulders, leaning back on her arms, and both partners control the thrusting with their hands and hips.

 

It’s good for men because you get deep penetration – and you can tone up your arms, buttocks and six-pack through the thrusting motion. What a pleasurable way to sit on your ‘throne’! It’s good for women because this position stimulates both the G-spot and the A-zone (between the G-spot and the cervix). If your partner’s arms are strong enough for him to support his weight with just one arm, he can caress your breasts or clitoris as he thrusts.

 

Caution: This position can be uncomfortable if the man is particularly well endowed or the woman has a sensitive cervix. Don’t try it if either of you have got back problems, and be careful – the woman will need a good sense of balance in order to avoid toppling to one side! Take it slowly to begin with, until you both get into the rhythm.

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