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the_rider_sex_positionsSEX POSITION OF THE WEEK: THE RIDER

 

This sex position, in which the woman is on top, is very simple and allows for clitoral stimulation. To achieve this position, the man lies on his back while the woman straddles him, leaning forwards with her weight on her hands, and rides him. It’s easy to kiss your partner in this position.

 

It’s good for men because it generally takes longer for a man to come in this position so it’s a great one to try if you want things to last longer. If you want deeper penetration, arch your pelvis towards the woman – although this position is already great for deep penetration.

 

It’s good for women because this position puts you in control. You can set the speed and depth of penetration – and if sex doesn’t last long enough, this position can improve things as you can keep penetration shallow and go at your pace rather than his.

 

Obviously, the man’s movement is tempered in this position. In fact, some women like this element and add to it by pinning their partner’s arms to the bed whilst they make love to them. One of the best things about this position is the amount of clitoral stimulation it provides.  The more the woman leans forward, the better friction it provides.

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