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Listen up, guys: a number of women were surveyed on what moves would have them rating you highly as a lover. Though three-quarters of men think they are sex-gods, the reality is that fewer than half of women rate their men as even sexually competent. On the other hand, 60% of all people think women are better than men in bed. So, there’s catching up to do. Follow the steps below and you’ll have a highly satisfied partner.
First off, spend plenty of time on foreplay. A whopping 86 percent of women said it’s very important that you engage in foreplay, which includes making out, licking our boobs and fingering us.
It can also include kissing/caressing other non-sexual parts of our body, such as our neck, finger and forehead.
Go down on us. Lesbians – who are known to have the most orgasms – can’t believe how infrequently men go down on women. 82 percent of women said it’s somewhat or very important that you go down on us. If you’re unsure if she wants it, just see what happens when you head down south. If she stops you, then you’ll have your answer – though more than likely she won’t.
Get good and better at sex
Do get yourself into good physical shape. 90 percent of women said it’s somewhat or very important that you have enough stamina and energy to not get tired too easily in bed. It doesn’t mean you need to have a six-pack – just be as trim and fit as you can be. After all, you like your partner to be looking her best for you.
The good news here is that you don’t have to worry about finishing too quickly. Only 33 percent of women said it’s very important that you’re able to withhold your orgasm for a long time. So if you finish in two minutes but still have enough energy to continue with pleasuring her, you’re good. And maybe you can then take your time with having a second orgasm.
Women actually like you taking control and spicing things up. We want you to dominate us and keep the experience interesting: 96 percent of women said it’s somewhat or very important that you take control in bed, and 86 percent of women said it’s somewhat or very important that you have sex with us in positions other than the missionary. In addition to varying up the positions, we want you to ratchet up the tempo/rhythm, too, but women said they don’t want to be jack-hammered the whole time either.
In your quest to take control, feel free to be a little rough with us. 75 percent of women this is somewhat to very important, so things like hair-pulling, mild slapping and the like is OK. The emphasis is on lightly – no bruises please.
Be careful with sexy talk. Over half of women (53 percent) said it’s not important that you tell us you want to f*ck our wet pussy, or whatever. So maybe err on the side of caution and don’t say things like that. However, 74 percent of women think it’s somewhat important or very important that you say PG-level things like ‘you’re so hot’. So try that instead.
Better sex and female orgasm
A big one is to help us orgasm. 73 percent of women said it’s very important that you help us orgasm. This is a given, but it’s worth repeating. Great lovers ensure that the woman comes first – by manual or oral stimulation – before the man even penetrates.
Go steady though if our orgasm isn’t happening. Lady parts can be fickle. They’re not as easy to work with as dicks are. Which means even if you do every single thing on this list and you do it right, an orgasm may not happen anyway. This is crucial for you guys to realize, as 89 percent of women said it’s somewhat or very important that you know when to stop trying to help us orgasm if it’s just not going to happen. Because sometimes — while we really do appreciate the effort! — if you’re trying too hard down there, it starts to feel too sensitive and hurt.
And, when it’s over, don’t just roll over and go to sleep. Many women said that post-sex interaction” is vital. We want you to cuddle with us after. Cliché, yes, but true. And maybe use that time to listen to feedback from us. 84 percent of women said it’s very important that you adjust your actions according to our feedback, whether that feedback is verbal or non-verbal (via our physical responses or our body language). Many guys take it this like an insult. But this needs to end. Don’t be an egotistical jerk to a woman who tries to tell you what she’s into. Her feedback is for your benefit, too.
Because remember that the more you please her, odds on the more she’ll want to please you.