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Many men obsess about the size of their penises – though the vast majority have perfectly average sizes but still worry they’re too small. Women can have the opposite problem; they worry that their vaginas are too large – mainly meaning being concerned that they’re too loose.
Even if common wisdom is that with lady parts tighter is better, most of the muscles that grip the penis are in the first half inch or so of the vaginal opening. Arguably whatever the taunts about small dicks, jokes about whether a woman is “tight” or “loose” tend to be more cruel, degrading, and loaded with moral judgment. Just remember that those jokes are coming from saddo misogynists and not from ob-gyn doctors — or guys who actually like women.
There are always extreme, and extremely rare, cases that require medical attention — but self-conscious anxiety when one is very normally sized down there is botheringly way more common. An unaroused vagina is only four inches deep and collapsed on itself width-wise when at rest. But it is very flexible – able to take most lengthy penises (though hitting on the cervix can be a step too far) – and, as for width, it can take any amount of girth when you can fit a baby’s head through there. And, what actually happens is that a vagina will naturally ‘balloon’ as it becomes highly aroused.
So, let’s all stop worrying and, anyway, what would want to be doing about it? Go for a designer vagina and have some painful (not to mention expensive) cosmetic surgery? More practically – and to help with your own orgasmic capability – you could spend some useful time doing kegel (pelvic floor) exercises every day.
Satisfying sex with the vagina and penis size you’ve got
As with most natural body-issue concerns, the best advice is to work with what you’ve got. Being comfortable in your own skin is what’s really sexy. For both sexes most say that size doesn’t really matter at all, and that stamina, chemistry, and oral sex skills are way more important in delivering satisfying sex.
What do women think of men’s penis size? Many don’t care too much about length, but some love a girthy penis. Others say that there’s definitely such a thing as too big, and argue that a strictly average dick is easier to work with and more enjoyable all around. One study showed that those women who primarily orgasmed from vaginal penetration, rather than clitoral stimulation, were more likely to care about greater penis size. But keep in mind that these women are in the minority – with only 18% of women orgasming solely through vaginal penetration.
Turns out that women do like “a good-looking penis” but, as part of that, penis size rated only sixth on the list of eight aspects – and girth came fourth. The women in the study rated “general cosmetic appearance” as the most important factor. So while a bigger penis was slightly preferred, grooming and hygiene were far more important. Men should stay trim – and that in itself will make their penis look bigger.
All in all, it seems that men are far more worried about their penis size than their partners are. One study found that 30% of the men said they were unhappy with their penis size, 35% were happy with it, and the rest were somewhere in between. The twist: all penises in the study fell within the normal size range.
Next, men should know the real facts of what is normal size range. Truth is that the average penis when flaccid is a mere 3.61 inches long and 3.66 inches in circumference, and 5.16 inches long and 4.59 inches in circumference when erect. A dick only counts as a micropenis when it is less than three inches long when erect. Anything bigger than that falls within the normal range.
In the end for both sexes, how you use what you’ve got is way more important than size.