Use group sex to freshen a relationship or to play with friends and strangers.
If you’re in a relationship and thinking of bringing another guy in, make sure that’s something both you and your partner want and that neither of you is going to feel jealous – or shocked and uncomfortable at seeing and sharing you with another man.
You’ll both need to have the attitude that healthy relationships can be open and that you can enjoy a whole variety of people, bodies and sex-styles – that you’re not honour bound to give each other everything you and he want.
In group sex generally, make a point of keeping everyone involved as the action and your attention moves around the group – especially when there are just the three of you.
For safety, be sure you’re changing condoms if you switch from fucking one guy to fucking another. And with strangers, make sure anyone fucking you is wearing a new condom – you don’t want them getting carried away and ‘forgetting’.
Where one of you likes to be passive, it’s great to be taken from both ends.
Use your penis in the bottom’s mouth in the way he likes. He might want you thrusting hard into his mouth – or to hold the pressure and gag him with your penis.
Switch sides when you want to.