As fetishes go, dressing up in the kind of costumes you’ll find in a high street sports shop has much to recommend it. Those strange, clingy tracksuits – or shell [ … ]
Gay Sex And Relationships
Buried Memories
As well as being physically intense, receiving anal sex can be a highly emotional experience. There is the sense of release from the day to day masks we wear, of [ … ]
Sexercise | PC Muscles For Gay Men
No, alas, the penis isn’t a muscle. If it were, erections to order would be as easy as raising a hand – and anxiety levels for men the world over [ … ]
Painful Anal Sex
Anal sex shouldn’t be painful, assuming you do not wish to experience pain. If it does hurt, there are a number of things which might be going wrong, most of [ … ]
Coming Out As Gay
In an ideal world, coming out would be a thing of the past. There’d be no coming out to get through. As we developed our sexual identities through adolescence our [ … ]
Other Men’s Erections – Your First Time
Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There’s excitement. You’ve got there. You’ve got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He’s upright [ … ]
What Is Douching – And How Do I Do It?
Douching is the practice of cleaning the bowels some time prior to sex by filling them with water then expelling that water. It is a way of ensuring the rectum [ … ]
Lost Libido
He’s hot, you’re not. You’re compatible, but somehow your penis isn’t so keen. If you’re the one with the low libido, don’t think of this as a terrible, insurmountable problem [ … ]
Am I Gay?
Looking back, many men who identify as gay know they’ve been so for as long as they remember. When they found the word gay and applied it to themselves, no [ … ]
Homophobia: A Brief Survival Guide
It’s easy enough to see why homophobia exists, and why homophobic bullying happens. People bully. They want the excuse. They want something, someone to get at, to make feel bad, [ … ]
Bottom On Top | Gay Sex Positions
For variety, a shift in perspective, or if one of you is an anal beginner, get the top to lie back and relax while the bottom rides…
Anger Management For Gay Men
Usually when we fight, and especially in relationships, it is our own internal anger and conflict we are expressing. Yes, there are times in life when we need to stand [ … ]
Hitting The Scene – And Thriving!
It can be like swimming with sharks when you first hit the scene, the sprawl of clubs and bars in whichever big city you’re nearest to. When you enter the [ … ]
My Boyfriend Wants Me To Top Him: What Do I Do?
It can feel such a sexy thrill to submit completely to a dominant partner, to the point where we lock our cock and balls in a chastity device and give [ … ]
Rimming Him | Love That hole
First off: we must say that this is not a safe sexual practice. No matter HIV, there are plenty of other STIs doing the round. They may sound like names of Greek gods, but you don’t want them. (Vaccinating for Hep A&B can be a good thing.) [ … ]
First Time Advice For Gay Anal Sex
Anal sex is often seen as the definitive form of gay love-making. You might think, and be pressured to think, that if you’re not doing it, be you top, bottom [ … ]
Your First Gay Relationships
The first time, or several times, that you have a boyfriend, it can be the case that there’s an explosive release of hopes, dreams, desires and pent-up emotions. You feel [ … ]
Dating Old, Dating Young | Mixed-Age Gay Relationships
Mixed age relationships can be challenging for both the older and younger partner. It isn’t only what your friends might say. It’s also to do with the meeting of differences [ … ]
Intimacy, Anxiety And Touch
True intimacy can be a challenge to achieve and many people are wary of risking it. A lot of guys we meet are up for sex and many interpret the [ … ]
The First Week Beyond The First Night
Romance strikes! The two of you wake the next morning, take a long look in each other’s eyes, and realise you actually still fancy each other! In a perfect world, [ … ]