Although I don’t like the labels of ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ and I believe that every gay man should experience being both, I myself prefer to bottom. All too often, bottoms just lie there and take it, but they don’t really participate because they don’t think that there is anything they can do. I disagree and the following is a list of things to try as a bottom…
Gay Sex Positions | Edge Of The Bed
It can be a slow gay-love position – and the prostate sensation is great. Build it into the earlier stages of your next sex session, or, if you’re aiming for [ … ]
Ready For Love? | Sex With A New Partner
You’re at the stage when you’re ready to make love? While you can’t guarantee mind-blowing sex on the first night, you can ensure your new lover comes back for a [ … ]
Sensual Gay Sex | Making Love
Sensuality when you’re having gay sex could be said to rely upon two things. Number one: your feelings of comfort, openness, friendship and, yes, love with and for your partner. Number two: your willingness and ability to indulge and revel in your own feelings of sensual and sexual pleasure…
How To Give Great Head Without Gagging | Oral Sex Tips
Gagging while giving a blowjob is a totally normal thing that happens to just about everyone from time to time. But that doesn’t make it any less unpleasant when it [ … ]
Monogamy | Taking Your Relationship One-On-One
A monogamous relationship is for many our romantic ideal, suggesting the stability and security most of us crave. But are we being unrealistic? Is monogamy a natural state for humans? There [ … ]
Common Male Fears About Sex
Given the macho stereotypes that men are expected to live up to, it’s hardly surprising that doubts can creep in. Sex can be a minefield, even for people who are [ … ]
Seven Ways To Be A Sensual Lover
Spice up your bedroom routine and reignite the fires of passion. The Lovers’ Guide shows you how… 1 Pamper yourself Sensual loving begins with a loving and sensual sense of [ … ]
I Can’t Experience Orgasm With My Boyfriend
‘Help! I’ve been dating my bf for seven months now, and I really love him, he is really great in bed – he would do whatever to make me feel [ … ]
My Sexual Fantasies Are Really Scaring Me
‘Okay, when I’m actually having sex I must be about the most vanilla person on the planet – I’m probably quite passive in bed. Though I love being made love [ … ]
Gay Sex | Nipple Play
Have you tried it? Do you like it? For many men, the nipples are hot-wired straight to the groin. And this isn’t a toll route. If your partner is a [ … ]
Sofa Sex | Gay Sex Positions
You’re on the sofa, your hands start to wander, next thing you know you’ve got each other’s pants round your knees – and, well, it seems only right, after brisk oral entrée, to take it all in…
Gay Sex Play | Dildos
Playing with dildos, as with other more manual ways of pleasuring the anus, can lead to a lot of insecurity. Sure, one is similarly passive while being given a blow-job, [ … ]
Enhance Your Self-Esteem | Sexy Man, Sexy Woman!
There’s nothing more sexy than confidence. Assess your confidence levels, overcome shyness and learn to be more assertive, with these easy tips and tricks to boost your self-esteem. To have [ … ]
Gay Sex Positions | Knees back? Legs up? Try both!
Switching sex positions mid-process adds spice to your sex life, but if you’re not in a sex-tech mood can feel disruptive, in the absence of a good choreographer. Still, finding that same old gay position and staying there hours (optimistically [ … ]
Oral Sex Issues | In My Mouth?
We’d like here to talk through some of the concerns and questions regarding oral sex which we have received from you. To judge by your messages, it seems that all [ … ]
Missionary Position Gay Sex
It’s true that the missionary position can lead to the most intimate love-making, allowing each man to see and be close to the other’s face, but that needn’t stop it being great sex. Indeed, with the closer emotional involvement, the physical sensations of sex are greatly enhanced.
Loneliness | When You Feel There’s No-One
How is it that you can feel perfectly happy on your own yet feel lonely in a crowd? Is it less to do with what others think of you and [ … ]
Gay Oral Sex | Positions & Technique
The prime directive when performing oral sex is absolutely to want it – and that’s for as long as it takes. It isn’t a chore or a favour. It isn’t just something you give him. You’re pleasuring yourself as well. You’re giving your mouth a treat. And if that’s the way you set about it, all else follows.
Gay Sex Positions Advice | 69
It seems a win-win situation. Each works on the other. Mouth and penis are satisfied. Each gives and receive at once. The trouble is, it can get confusing. How, after all, do you concentrate on giving a world-class blow-job when you’re writhing in the throws of what he’s giving you? True, side to side takes the pressure off, and for a languid, exploratory half hour can be about right, but if what you want is that pressure then someone’s going to have to be top…