Exploring your rabbit vibrator alone

The Rabbit is one of the world’s best selling sex toys. Known variously as the Jack Rabbit, the Rampant Rabbit and of course, the Jessica Rabbit, it shot to fame when Charlotte in Sex and the City developed a dependency on hers and was, err, at it like a rabbit.

The first time you use a rabbit can be an intense experience: “It was one of the first toys I ever tested and the orgasm it delivered matched the best I’d ever had with a lover. I had tears streaming down my face and was genuinely emotional from the experience my rabbit gave me. The clitoral stimulator, rotating shaft and the swirling ‘bubblegum machine’ balls in the base combined to make it feel as if I was having the best sex of my life at the same time as a dexterous tongue was working its magic: an experience that’s impossible to emulate unless group sex is your thing.”

The vast majority of women simply use the vibrating bunny ears on their clit. Given that the shaft and bunny ears tend to be operated with different buttons, this is a good way of making your batteries last longer. However, there’s more than one way to use a rabbit.

For your first time, try using each of the available options individually to see which one(s) you like best. Start by using the bunny ears alone on your clit to get yourself wet, so that it’s easy to insert the toy when the time feels right. You can also press the swirling balls at the base of the shaft against your clit for a feeling akin to cunnilingus.

Once you’re ready, turn the ears off then slide the rabbit inside yourself, using lube if need be, taking it as slowly or rapidly as you want. Some women like to plunge the rabbit up to the hilt in one move, while others like to slip it in millimeter by millimeter. Either way, once the rabbit is a few inches inside you, it’s well worth turning on the rotating shaft to stimulate your G-spot. Many rabbits have shafts that can rotate in both directions so try it each way to see which you prefer. You may even find that you can ejaculate using this method. And try all the different speed settings. Some women like maximum buzz while others like a gentler thrill and it’s only by experimenting that you can see what you most enjoy.

You may want to thrust your rabbit in and out or could simply lie back and enjoy the sensation of the head swirling inside you. Simply leaving it inside you gives you the option to press your clit against the static bunny ears, and grind out your orgasm from the pressure alone. However, turning on the vibrating ears once the rabbit is inside you may well take you over the edge in seconds.

If your clit is too sensitive for direct stimulation, or you’re a fan of anal play, turning the rabbit around so that the ears caress your anus rather than your clitoris can give a thrill akin to rimming, particularly if you use lube. However, wash your rabbit thoroughly afterwards so that you don’t inadvertently give yourself thrush the next time you use your rabbit. If you like anal play and clitoral play (greedy girl!), you can use another vibrator such as a bullet on your clitoris to give double thrills.

If you’re into cervical stimulation, it’s worth investing in one of the extra long rabbits as most aren’t long enough to reach the cervix unless you have a shallow vagina. Do make sure that it’s not too big though as, unless you can bury it all the way inside yourself, you’ll miss out on the magic that those bunny ears can provide.

One of the advantages of the rabbit is that it can be controlled with one hand, leaving the other one free to caress your nipples, pull your hair if you’re into pain play, or stroke your clit should you opt for using the rabbit with the ears on your anus.

You may find that you can give yourself multiple orgasms by turning the vibrating ears off on your rabbit once you’ve had your first orgasm, and simply arching towards the ears to press your clit against them. However, if you’re after a really intense sensation, you could try ‘riding through’ the sensitivity and keeping the ears buzzing on your clit until you come again, and again, and again.

By experimenting with your rabbit, you’re sure to have great orgasms of numerous different types. And of course, once you’ve got used to using it alone you can always show your partner what you’ve learned…

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