Sex Play

Favourite foreplay for me is oral sex. I love to come when my man goes down on me – and it only makes when he enters me all the more sensational. I like to give him oral, too, but don’t want him to come. Partially it’s that I want him still able to come in me (well in a condom – we’ve only been together three months) but, I must admit, partially it’s the worry of not wanting to swallow his semen. I’ve just never done it. Does that matter? I am beginning to think he’s noticing what I’m up to.. Also, can I ask if I can catch an STD from oral sex?

Which are the sex toys best set to deliver your perfect orgasm? We’ve put together the Lovers’ Guide dildo and vibrator orgasm guide to help you decide.

Break the ice with your partner and send them into shivers of delight. Icy games can ignite fiery passion in the frostiest lover.

Satisfaction guaranteed. Make your love-play extra pleasurable with our guide to vibrators, dildos and other fun sex toys.

Our thanks for the advice and stories you’ve sent in so far about your perfect foreplay techniques. Here’s a sample of what you’ve said – and we think there’s much more experience you have to share with other Lovers’ Guide visitors. Tell us more!

It’s your turn to be explicit! We’re building the Lovers’ Guide Genital Gallery – and we’d like to put yours on show – it’s part of a cause to show how much they vary, to celebrate them and end the “shame” that used to be attached to our glorious organs of pleasure and reproduction.

We all touch, hear, taste and feel more intensely in the dark. By putting on a blindfold and depriving our sense of sight, we can experience a whole new range of exquisite sensations and feelings.