Is infidelity always bad?

'Till death us do part' say the vows. Whilst many people have monogamous marriages and 'forsake all others', affairs are also a fact of life. But is infidelity always a bad thing? Can a relationship remain healthy when the bedroom door is flung open ...

Time to grieve

He’s dumped you. What advice is on offer here? Pick yourself up? Get over it? Life moves on? Well, it does, in the end. You will – but that won’t happen straight away. There’s more than a little unhappiness to get through first. Rule one: don’t be as...

Saying its over

You know it’s time for the relationship to end. You’ve closed off from him. You just no longer fancy him, find his presence and his (increasingly) irritating (stupid) habits downright oppressive. (Why did it never really bug you before, the way he’d ...

The ex-Factor

Can you be friends with your ex - and should you? The Lovers' Guide gives you the grounds on which you can decide.

Counselling and how to get it

Many people benefit from talking over their problems with a counsellor and the field of counselling has grown enormously in recent years. As the field grows so does the number of approaches, and although this means that there is bound to be some form...