Hi. My problem is penetration. Me and my partner do long lovemaking. We both are fully excited but as soon as he tries to penetrate he becomes loose or sometimes even if he is hard he just can’t find where to penetrate? We have...

For the very lucky couple who are perfectly balanced in their sexual needs and appetites, neither avoids sex. But if one partner goes off sex, the balance is lost and remedial action needs to be taken.

Home made 'porn' can seem a daunting prospect, but with a little preparation - and careful agreement about when the results may be shown - it can certainly make for a steamier sex life.

The pursuit of the unobtainable is a problem for many people. Its causes lie deep, but intimacy can be found – and accepted – through therapy.

Painful sex is a very real problem that can rock the steadiest relationship - but by finding out the possible causes, the problem can often be overcome.