Sharing your rabbit vibrator with your partner

Although some men feel uncomfortable about their partner using sex toys as they feel threatened by them, at least as many men find the idea of watching their lover masturbate a top turn on. As such, introducing your man to your rabbit vibrator may well lead to a seriously hot night.

Don’t simply spring it on your man as a surprise, unless he’s told you that he likes the idea of watching you with your rabbit. Instead, put it by the side of the bed and start by masturbating manually, showing off your body to your love. Spreading your labia or lying on all fours and entering yourself from behind will both give your man a particularly graphic view that will probably fuel the fire.

Once you’re aroused enough, ask if he’d like to see you use your toy. If he says yes -and there’s a good chance he will – start by tracing the rabbit down your body, letting the shaft buzz against your nipples until they stiffen. Your man may also enjoy watching you lick or suck the rabbit as it will make him think about your lips on his shaft (indeed, once you get going, there’s nothing to stop you from sucking him as you play. Just make sure you position a mirror so that he can still see what you’re doing down below.)

When you get to your clit, tease it with the tip of the rabbit’s shaft, approaching from the side so your man can see your clitoris swell. When you’re ready, you can slide the shaft inside yourself, making sure to look your man in the eye as you do so, leaving him in no doubt that you’re imagining it’s him. Use your other hand to stroke your man’s member, or be self-indulgent and play with your own breasts. If you’re into domination, you could even tie your man up then explore yourself in a leisurely fashion, straddling his face when it gets to the moment of penetration so that he can see you open up to take the rabbit’s girth.

Only turn the bunny ears on if your man is very secure in his sexuality: it can be a knock to a man’s ego if he sees a toy give his partner an orgasm in under a minute if it usually takes him 15 minutes or more. However, if he is comfortable with himself, by far the best thing is to use the rabbit as you’d use it when you’re alone. And once he’s watched for a while, move his hand on to the base so that he can control it. That way he’ll feel more a part of the experience than if he’s simply watching you.

If you can trust your partner enough, you may want to let him photograph you as you use your rabbit: opt for extreme close ups if you’re nervous about having identifiable sexy pics of yourself floating around. Chances are, your man won’t have any objections at all to getting graphic!

Other ways to use the rabbit with your partner include using it in your vagina during anal sex (using lube and a condom for anal, of course) holding the tip of the rabbit’s shaft against your man’s perineum during sex (easiest during missionary style sex as every time he pulls back, he’ll press harder against the rabbit – just make sure you put a condom on the rabbit or wash it thoroughly afterwards) or even getting into the doggy position and sliding the rabbit inside your vagina then letting your man side in alongside it so he can feel the buzz and you can feel really filled. Your man could blindfold you and trail the vibrating rabbit over your body, teasing your nipples and outer labia, making you wait for him to press it against your clit or slide it inside you. Or he could simply press the bunny ears against your clit while taking you from behind.

The rabbit is wonderfully versatile and there’s no reason that you should only use it solo. By introducing your man to your rabbit, you may well find you’ve got the dream combination: man and machine in perfect harmony.

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