Sex Problems

Sexual mood swings: what’s the problem?

Advice is given to a man who experiences huge, periodic variations in his states of arousal and readiness to ejaculate/orgasm. When premature ejaculation alternates with retarded ejaculation, what’s going wrong?

Taking your partner to sex school

The start of a sexual relationship is a time of exploration, when we both work out each other’s sex style and home in on what we both like from sex. Where there is an initial sex-mismatch… Advice is given.

Sex positions and cramping: three questions

With one partner on the large side and the other petite, not all sex positions might be comfortably available. What, though, when sex causes cramp? Advice is given.

Is masturbation damaging my relationship?

I really love my wife – and we have good sex, well, around three times a week. Usually twice at weekends and once in the week. Trouble is, I’m in an office on my own and I keep flipping YouPorn on my computer. I find I’m masturbating more than having...

I'm a sexy, powerful woman: they're letting me down

I’m a 25 year old who’s always liked short involvements or one night stands; I’m a professional woman, a boss, very into sex and, I like to think very savvy and empowered.

When casual, fun sex isn’t enough for him

‘I’ve been having fairly casual, good fun sex with a friend. I’m happiest not calling this a relationship. He’s seemed to want more – and now he’s started avoiding me altogether.’ Advice is given.

My partner doesn’t like my sex toys

There are men out there who have issues with their partner’s sex toys. The sense of competition is a factor. So too is the nagging thought that, as ‘real men’, they should be delivering all the sexual pleasure their partner needs. Advice is given.