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The average penis size when erect for white males is estimated to be in the region of five to six and a half inches - and probably towards the lower end of this range, given that men may be giving way somewhat to wishful thinking when measuring and reporting. It is interesting to note that most men who attempt to enlarge their penises already have over the average penis size. Anxiety, anxiety. Yes, there are those who do have a small penis, but most of those who fear they have are perfectly 'normal'.

Worries about 'measuring up' emerge during puberty, perhaps because before the age of around 15, 16, 17 or later, boys' penis size will vary according to how far advanced they are through puberty and will not have attained full adult size - for which reason it is fairly meaningless to talk of 'normal' or average teen penis size. It is also possible that they will not have seen other boys' erect penises and do not realise that while the size of flaccid penises varies widely, erection is a levelling influence and tends to even out the difference in inches.

Such worries persist into adulthood - when it is even less likely men will have the chance to compare their own erect penis with others'. Bigger is better, so we are taught, and the only erections men are likely to see (apart from their own) are those wielded by porn stars chosen precisely because of their above-average penis size. Indeed, one reaction to the first Lovers' Guide video was a sigh of relief when men realised they were in fact normal.

Well, be ye huge or 'small', there's close to nothing you can do to change your penis size. We strongly recommend you do not use 'penis-developer' vacuum pumps, since these can damage your penis and interfere with your ability to sustain an erection. What you can do is learn to use what you've got - and that doesn't just mean your penis; it means your hands, your mouth... and your imagination.

Penis size - key articles:

Sex problems: 'I have a small penis'

Worried that you have a small penis? This advice should help reassure you - both that you're probably perfectly normally endowed, and that, no matter the size of your penis, you can still be a fabulous lover. Learn more.

So he has a small penis? Make him feel huge!

If your man does have a 'small' penis - and bear in mind here that the average erect penis size is around five to six inches - take these steps to rocking great sex and to convince him he is 110% man. and huge! Learn more.

Does penis size matter?

Too big? Too small? Just right? In a society where bigger is always better, it won't come as much of a surprise that the most common sexual fear among men is that their members don't match up. But what do the girls think? Does it matter? (Well, maybe, a bit, yes.) Learn more.

Sex positions for deep penetration

Choose positions which allow for the deepest penetration and make the most of your assets. But do remember, penetration isn't everything. You can use your whole body and mind to pleasure your partner - and when having sex, it's less a question of pump than grind. Learn more.



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