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Oral sex technique - pleasing him

Good oral sex for him is about lubricant, staying power and general gusto – knowing his partner loves giving him oral as much as he loves receiving it. There’s the visual appeal of seeing his penis slide in and out of his partner’s lips. And, just as...

Prolonging sex, delaying orgasm - for men

Men who worry about how long it takes them to come aren’t doing themselves any favours, in terms both of enjoying sex, rather than worrying the while, and of lasting longer. Prolonging sex and delaying orgasm needn’t be, and shouldn’t be, an exercise...

Sex with ice

Break the ice with your partner and send them into shivers of delight. Icy games can ignite fiery passion in the frostiest lover.

Vaginal orgasm vs. clitoral orgasm – What’s the score?

It was Sigmund Freud who set the tone for twentieth century advice as to the superior qualities of vaginal orgasm, rather than clitoral. Vaginal orgasm, he claimed, was the more ‘mature’ orgasm – and for much of the century that was the orthodox line...

Female ejaculation - a.k.a. 'gushing' and 'squirting' orgasms

Female ejaculation – or more raunchily, gushing or squirting orgasms – has been known of for centuries, is written of, for example, in medieval Indian texts, yet awareness and acceptance of the phenomenon has until recently by and large been suppress...

Oral sex techniques - pleasing her

For many women, your oral sex skills are much more important than either how big your penis is or how long you can ‘keep it up’ when having intercourse. Get your oral sex technique honed and you’ll be taking giant leaps to being her ideal lover.

Shapes 'n' sizes: sex positions for all

We’d like to respond to the messages you’ve sent describing issues you’ve faced with some sex positions due to physical differences both between you and your partner and between the two of you and the couples you’ve seen in the Lovers’ Guide programm...