Break the ice with your partner and send them into shivers of delight. Icy games can ignite fiery passion in the frostiest lover.
Ice in its many forms is a treat on a hot summer’s day. Think of all the delicious ice-creams, sorbets and ice lollies we consume and the luscious and satisfying sensations as they slip down the throat. Now imagine the feel of clear, cool ice against warm, naked skin. It may be bracing at first – but it will soon send refreshing chills of delight up and down your spine.
Begin your session by making sure the room is at the right temperature, warm enough to prevent catching a chill. If the season is spring or summer and the outside temperature is hot, open the window and let the gentle breezes caress your body as you prepare for your icy play. If winter, turn up the heating or light a blazing open fire.
Make sure you have a soft, comfortable surface on which to play. You might imitate winter scenery inside by taking all the blankets off the bed, leaving just a snowy white silk or cotton sheet. If you choose to play on the floor, cover an exercise mat with soft blankets and cushions. Keep a couple of glasses and a large bowl filled with ice cubes within arms’ reach. You will probably want to have your favourite drinks on hand as well for flavoured ice kisses.
Start out by exchanging a piece of ice between your lover’s mouth and your own. Tiny, cold kisses can then be planted on your lover’s cheek, returning the ice to their mouth again. Pass the ice back and forth until it melts and then let your tongue travel across their forehead, chin and eyelids. Enjoy playing this game for a while before you run delightfully chilly little kisses down the side of their neck.
Now take a piece of ice and, with your lover lying comfortably on his or her stomach, touch the sensitive skin on their back, tracing circles or zig-zags as you go. Work slowly from the neck underneath the hairline, along the spine, and travel down the back of the legs. Pay special attention to the buttocks, covering the entire skin surface – and all the little curves and crevices – with little spiral motions.
Now for the front of the body. Start by slipping a piece of ice down the middle of your lover’s torso, in between the breasts. Nipples are especially sensitive and when ice is passed across them, they will harden almost immediately. Women will be particularly turned on by this and their breasts will rise and firm up as the nipples because aroused.
Continue to rub the ice across the front of your lover’s body in a downward motion, teasing it across their stomach and rubbing it around their waist. Pop a cube into their navel and swirl in around the sides of their hips. As soon as you travel any further below, the serious pleasure begins.
Try taking the ice in your mouth and, holding it between your teeth, move it down to your partner’s thighs. At this point, pretend you haven’t noticed the genital area yet. Rub the ice slowly but firmly down their inner thighs in a straight line, then tease the backs of their knees. Run the ice slowly down the calf muscles to their feet.
The frosty feeling of the ice against their partner will make your partner tingle all over. Slip a small piece of ice between the toes, or alternatively, after having had the ice in your mouth, suck on each of their toes individually. The bottom of the feet may be too ticklish to keep iced for any length of time, but be sure to lick the arches with long strokes of the tongue as they can withstand firmer pressure.
Make sure that your woman is comfortable and that she is not feeling too shivery. You might try wrapping her above the waist in a sexy opened button-down camisole. Start by rubbing your cooled lips round the inside of her thighs, close to the genital area. You may want to surprise her with a few tiny love bites. Next, run your cold tongue between the folds of her labia. Take a piece of ice in your mouth and gently insert it into her vagina, pushing it in with your tongue – but be careful not to push it too far inside or you will not be able to continue to suck it.
She may feel an electric sensation at the first, but the sharp contrast in temperature will make this a highly erotic and sensual experience. Now suck on the ice cube, at times holding the ice between your teeth, and move it in and out, simulating intercourse. Of course, if you desire, you can complete your love play with full penetration. The chilliness of her vagina will soon be replaced by the passionate heat of the movement.
Prop your man up on pillows so that he is comfortable and make sure that he has a full view of what you are doing to him. You can begin by holding a piece of ice in your mouth and then running your tongue down along his chest. Let your tongue linger at the point just above his genital area and play along the folds where his legs begin, then tease your tongue along the inside of his thighs. Do this for a while before taking the ice back in your mouth.
Now put the cold tongue on the tip of his penis and swirl it round. He may jump at first but will be ultimately thrilled. Work your tongue around his testicles before giving him full oral satisfaction. Or you may want to finish by getting on top of him, using one of the woman-on-top sex positions.
Do make sure the ice cubes are melting to the touch and aren’t so cold they’ll stick to the skin. And keep yourselves warm!
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