Better Sex: Pleasing Her

Dusting away the winter blues

There’s nothing worse than winter to dampen your desire. It’s all cold outside and all you want to do is snuggle in front of the TV eating soup and being cosy.

Sex during pregnancy for lesbians

Just like heterosexual couples, many lesbian couples worry about the safety of sexual activity during pregnancy. Strange as it may seem, doctors once thought lesbians were more likely to have miscarriages than other women, but there is no reason to a...

Enhancing sensuality in your lovemaking

Sensuality: ‘unrestrained indulgence in sensual pleasures’. The very definition just conjures up images of opulence and fulfilment, which is just what lovemaking should be.

Sharing masturbation

Masturbation amongst women has historically been something quite secretive and taboo. Many women have, throughout the ages, been made to feel ashamed of it and only in the last few years have women started to ‘come out’ in terms of enjoying masturbat...

Experiencing the elusive orgasm

Having sex is all about the orgasm right? Wrong. If you’re lucky enough never to have experienced you or your girlfriend not being able to experience orgasm, then you probably don’t really give it any thought. It’s something that just happens as a re...

Achieving female ejaculation

Female ejaculation is nothing new. The Greek philosopher Aristotle noted its existence, Italian anatomist Renaldus Columbus referred to female ejaculate while he was explaining the function of the clitoris and, in the 17th century, the Dutch anatomis...

Can't achieve orgasm?

It’s easy to assume that when you start dating someone and sleeping together that the sex is going to be fantastic. You think you’ve met an amazing girl and so does she, so why wouldn’t it follow that you are going to have amazing sex?