Better Sex: Pleasing Her

Oral sex techniques - pleasing her

For many women, your oral sex skills are much more important than either how big your penis is or how long you can ‘keep it up’ when having intercourse. Get your oral sex technique honed and you’ll be taking giant leaps to being her ideal lover.

I want sex during my period

Having sex during your period is entirely natural and, to many women, highly pleasurable – they feel more aroused than at other times. What, though, when your partner isn’t keen? Advice is given.

Vaginal orgasm vs. clitoral orgasm – What’s the score?

It was Sigmund Freud who set the tone for twentieth century advice as to the superior qualities of vaginal orgasm, rather than clitoral. Vaginal orgasm, he claimed, was the more ‘mature’ orgasm – and for much of the century that was the orthodox line...

Female ejaculation - a.k.a. 'gushing' and 'squirting' orgasms

Female ejaculation – or more raunchily, gushing or squirting orgasms – has been known of for centuries, is written of, for example, in medieval Indian texts, yet awareness and acceptance of the phenomenon has until recently by and large been suppress...

Toys, the gift of love

Nowadays, if you ask a woman what she’d most like to receive from her lover, she’s as likely to say a sex toy as a bunch of flowers. Ever since the Jessica Rabbit first shot to fame courtesy of Sex and the City, sex toys have been a ‘must have’ item ...

Getting to Yes, Yes, Yes! Foreplay, Friction & Fantasy

Get to grips with the three big ‘F’s: foreplay, friction and fantasy. Orgasms guaranteed? Almost. Try our suggestions for achieving satisfaction every time you make love, then share your orgasm secrets with the ever growing Lovers’ Guide community.

Enhancing female orgasm - you've told us

Our thanks for the advice and the questions you've sent in about enhancing female orgasm. Here's a selection of the tips you've offered – and our responses to the issues you face and your areas of concern.