Masturbation: The Easiest Route to Female Orgasm

Female orgasm doesn’t always come easily but there’s one easy thing that will increase your chances of reaching climax: masturbation. By indulging in some self-pleasure, you’re helping yourself in more ways than one.

To start with, female orgasm is a lot easier to achieve if you know what turns you on. Exploring your body is by far the best way to learn what you do like – and what you don’t. Caress your nipples, flick, squeeze and caress your clitoris, let your fingers dance over your labia and you’ll soon find out what works for you.

Masturbation also gives you a chance to relax on your own, and given that stress is one of the biggest female orgasm killers around, this is no bad thing. Make your solo-session a thing of indulgence: run yourself a bath, light some candles, listen to soothing music and your chances of having a fantastic orgasm will all be enhanced.

And there’s no reason to keep your masturbatory habits as a purely solo hobby. Female masturbation is a regular theme in porn films because men love to watch it – and it’s even hotter if you’re watching the woman you love pleasure herself because her orgasm means so much more. Don’t think that you have to emulate these films when you masturbate for your partner though. Show him what you really do when you’re on your own and, not only will it be sexier, but it’ll also help teach him the best ways to touch you.

Some women feel uncomfortable masturbating in front of their partner because of the myths that surround female orgasm and self pleasure. Here are some of the most common fears – and why you shouldn’t let them affect you:

Myth #1: Men feel threatened by female orgasm unless it’s down to them.

Some women think that it’s insensitive to masturbate in front of a partner because it suggests their partner isn’t pleasing them properly. In fact, it says the opposite: that you love your partner enough to let him into an intimate part of your life and you want to show him how you make yourself come so that he can enjoy it too.

Myth #2: Masturbation will stop you having orgasms through sex.

Many women think that using a toy to masturbate will make it harder to reach orgasm through penetrative sex. While the intense stimulation can become something that you get used to, it’s not addictive and if you make sure that you spend as much masturbatory time using your fingers as your toys then it should only increase chances of female orgasm – particularly if you do it in front of you partner.

Myth #3: Masturbation is dirty and wrong.

Female orgasm is a complex thing and it’s not just about the body: the brain can stand in the way and cause problems too. However, there’s no need to feel self-conscious about masturbating in front of your partner because you believe it is dirty: there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it and, if anything, you’ll improve your sex life by getting over this hang up as it will help you feel more comfortable about all aspects of your sexuality.

By introducing masturbation to your life – and masturbating even more, if it’s already a part of it – the chances of female orgasm are much increased.

And obviously, it’s not just something for the ladies either…

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