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A beginner's guide to lesbian sex

There are no hard and fast rules to lesbian (or any!) sex. However, there are some things to keep in mind that should certainly go a long way to making the experience more pleasurable.

Relax!

The odds are that the other girl is likely to be just as nervous as you. Even if sheís slept with women before, sheíd have to be a pretty confident (and arrogant) person not to feel a little nervous sleeping with a person for the first time.

Relaxing may seem hard at first, but you arenít alone Ė just take your time and ease into the situation Ė only go as slow or as fast as you feel comfortable with and donít feel pressured into doing anything you arenít entirely sure about.

Start off slow

Kissing is always the best way to start off! You will find that if there is a mutal attraction and things are going well, the kissing will lead into exploring each others bodies and eventually sex. Before you realise it youíll be lying there wondering what all the fuss was about!

Trust your instincts

If there is anyone who knows a womanís body well, itís another woman. A good rule of thumb is to just try what you think you might like done to you. Donít jump straight in there with the suggestion of bondage or toys Ė you donít want to run before you can walk! It may be exciting to think you are taking that first step, but thereís plenty of time to get used to each other and try new things.

Respect the other girl

Yes itís great, youíve finally got yourself a girl and you canít wait for her to ravish you all night, but donít forget there might be things she isnít comfortable with doing and she may not want to move as fast as you. If you want things to last or even just be pleasurable if itís short and sweet, youíll get a better response by respecting what she wants as well as thinking of your needs.

Be safe

Itís a common misconception that safe sex doesnít apply to lesbians. It does Ė particularly with STIís like cystitis and thrush. Always wash your hands before (and after) sex, try to keep your nails short and be aware of anyone with open cuts, sores or bleeding gums Ė particularly when it comes to cunnilingus.

Have fun!

This is the most important part! If you donít enjoy it Ė donít do it! Good sex with someone you trust is meant to be fun and your confidence will be boosted no end. Youíll soon find that youíll both be exploring your sexuality together which is always so much more fun!

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