Other men's erections - your first time

Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There's excitement. You've got there. You've got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He's upright and hard just for you, his excitement obvious and vi...

STIs - The bad, the appalling, and the merely dull

True: the only sure way of never catching anything is only ever to have sex in one-on-one relationships in which both partners are 100% faithful and both have been tested - and cleared or cured. If that doesn't sound like you, it's worth knowing what...

Fresh? Getting your scent right

Your sense of smell is up there, though differently, with sight as a sense that leads straight to the meat - and the heart - of the matter. It's primitive. Using smell to heighten libido is one sure way of getting with nature's (gay) program.

Cleanliness - without douching

Faeces held in the rectum are usually left over from the last bowel movement or have been deliberately kept in because going to the lavatory wasn’t convenient. Douching is sometimes necessary, but the bowels can also be otherwise helped to become pro...

Fit body, sexier life

Forget macho men and Arnie abs. Going the gym is all about getting healthy, not trying to sculpt your body into some unattainable image. If your sex life needs a lift, a fit body is the best place to start!

A matter of size

A flaccid penis is about as useful as a peacock’s tail. Actually, less so. It has two functions: one, to pass urine; two, to be compared with other flaccid penises in the gents or the locker room. Rest assured, those big, swinging dongs extend propor...

Sexercise

No, alas, the penis isn’t a muscle. If it were, erections to order would be as easy as raising a hand – and anxiety levels for men the world over would instantly plummet. There are, though, muscles attached to the basic erectile machinery. One of the...