Gay Sex Positions

First time advice for gay anal sex

Anal sex is often seen as the definitive form of gay love-making. You might think, and be pressured to think, that if you’re not doing it, be you top, bottom or versatile, you must be some sort of second rate closet case. But is it for you? It can hu...

Enhancing gay sex positions: being a better bottom

Andy in New York has sent us in this piece about what the bottom can do to help make sex better. He writes: Although I don't like the labels of 'top' and 'bottom' and I believe that every gay man should experience being both, I myself prefer to botto...

At the edge of the bed: relaxed oral

Yes, the height of the bed does matter. The penetrating partner might not be able to stand tall doing this one - and if that's what he wants, you might think: kitchen table. On the other hand, if kneeling doesn't quite raise him high enough, he'll ne...

Over the table

If you like sex in which domination games play a big role, but aren’t inclined to elaborate this into leather, masks, cuffs, candles, wracks, or, for the truly perverse, the feather duster, try positions in which the top forcibly holds the bottom’s f...

Take your seats

You’re on the sofa, your hands start to wander, next thing you know you’ve got each other’s pants round your knees – and, well, it seems only right, after brisk oral entrée, to take it all in.

Missionary position gay anal sex

It’s true that the missionary position can lead to the most intimate love-making, allowing each man to see and be close to the other’s face, but that needn’t stop it being great sex. Indeed, with the closer emotional involvement, the physical sensati...

Bottom on top

For variety, a shift in perspective, or if one of you is an anal beginner, get the top to lie back and relax while the bottom rides him.