Sex Play

Nipple Play

Have you tried it? Do you like it? For many men, the nipples are hot-wired straight to the groin. And this isn't a toll route.

The great outdoors

Al fresco sex is fantastic. We don’t mean trundling around in the bushes of your local common – the name of which says it all. We mean you and your partner getting out somewhere, where you’re more or less confident you won’t be seen, and feeling more...

Your fantasises shared

It can be difficult to share sexual fantasies with a partner. Perhaps, you fear, he’ll think your tastes are weird or ‘dirty’, or that he isn’t living up to your ideals. You like that ‘barely legal’, ‘builder’s lad’ twink on the video; his, your part...

Shoot!

Digital cameras have many advantages over film, not least of which is that you don’t have to share your pictures of yourself and your partner with the local chemist. Taking sexy photographs of each other goes beyond being a fun thrill – though it’s c...

Rude boys: Playing for England

As fetishes go, dressing up in the kind of costumes you’ll find in a high street sports shop has much to recommend it. Those strange, clingy tracksuits – or shell suits, or whatever they’re called now – pub trainers, tackily branded tops, white socks...

Getting to grips with condoms

You can, of course, simply get expert at putting one on, in the dark, in the heat of the moment, and get it down to about six seconds (putting one on him) or four (on yourself). Condoms and HIV are a fact of life: deal with that

Sttrrrrappp!

To some it’s the final indignity, to others a great psychological fix – all those years, and still you’re allowed to be a baby – and a great way of getting the blood to flow for scintillating skin sensation.