Digital cameras have many advantages over film, not least of which is that you don’t have to share your pictures of yourself and your partner with the local chemist. Taking sexy photographs of each other goes beyond being a fun...

As fetishes go, dressing up in the kind of costumes you’ll find in a high street sports shop has much to recommend it. Those strange, clingy tracksuits – or shell suits, or whatever they’re called now – pub trainers, tackily...

You can, of course, simply get expert at putting one on, in the dark, in the heat of the moment, and get it down to about six seconds (putting one on him) or four (on yourself). Condoms and HIV are a fact of life: deal with that

To some it’s the final indignity, to others a great psychological fix – all those years, and still you’re allowed to be a baby – and a great way of getting the blood to flow for scintillating skin sensation.

For a lazy morning after, when neither really feels like exerting himself, kiss, grab a bottle of lube, throw the sheets off, and work each other gently to the day’s first orgasm with the first thing you ever made love with: your...