You’re on the sofa, your hands start to wander, next thing you know you’ve got each other’s pants round your knees – and, well, it seems only right, after brisk oral entrée, to take it all in.

It’s true that the missionary position can lead to the most intimate love-making, allowing each man to see and be close to the other’s face, but that needn’t stop it being great sex. Indeed, with the closer emotional involvement,...

For variety, a shift in perspective, or if one of you is an anal beginner, get the top to lie back and relax while the bottom rides him.

It seems a win-win situation. Each works on the other. Mouth and penis are satisfied. Each gives and receive at once. The trouble is, it can get confusing. How, after all, do you concentrate on giving a world-class blow-job when...

Switching positions mid-process adds spice to your sex life, but if you’re not in a sex-tech mood can feel disruptive, in the absence of a good choreographer. Still, finding that same old position and staying there hours...