Do you want semi-darkness and mystery or the glaring light of day? It’s a shame you can’t really have both at once, since each has its advantages.

On its own or as an aspect of foreplay, massage is the royal road to intimacy. It’s free, lasts as long as you like, and you don’t even need to be expert – though, with a little practice, you soon will be. Take the time to...

The prime directive when performing oral sex is absolutely to want it – and that’s for as long as it takes. It isn’t a chore or a favour. It isn’t just something you give him. You’re pleasuring yourself as well. You’re giving...

Is white always right? Do you lift and separate or let it hang low? What exactly are you saying with your regular brand? Dress your crotch and buns in a way he’ll appreciate. How best can you turn him on?

At times it can seem there’s way too much silence in sex. It’s almost as if we’re afraid to give voice to what we feel and what we want. When you’re flirting, when you’re getting off, and until you lose every capacity to speak,...