Creative Lovemaking

In the kink, bondage sex toys

Only a decade or so ago, kinky sex was something that was taboo. The idea of tying your lover up, putting them over your knee for a spanking or enjoying a role-play of wicked pirate and helpless slave was filed under ‘perverted’ and left strictly to ...

Prolonging sex, delaying orgasm - for men

Men who worry about how long it takes them to come aren’t doing themselves any favours, in terms both of enjoying sex, rather than worrying the while, and of lasting longer. Prolonging sex and delaying orgasm needn’t be, and shouldn’t be, an exercise...

What’s made for your most memorable lovemaking ever?

We all have experiences of lovemaking which stand out in the memory, which we treasure and which we might hope to relive. What made those times so memorable – and how can we reach those dizzying heights again? Here are some of our suggestions – then ...

Toys for two, sharing sex toys

Many people assume that sex toys are something best used for solo activity, but that’s only half the story. By choosing the right sex toy, you can enhance your lovemaking with your partner too. Maybe you have a hard time reaching climax at the same t...

Hunkering Down – Sexily!

For many of us, Autumn is steadily arriving and the summer holiday period has drawn to a close. Every night’s a school night – or so it can seem mid-week – and as those nights draw in we tend to experience affective changes, our light-enhanced summer...

Faking orgasm

Why are some women better at pretending they are enjoying sex than actually enjoying it? Why do they have to fake orgasm - and what can be done? Help is at hand with the Lovers’ Guide.

Sex and the exotic

The sexual mysteries of the east, for the westerner, should by now long since have been exploded. We see that by imagining ourselves in the roles of Arabian, Japanese and Indian lovers, we are pursuing our own need for a sense of the exotic and doing...