Creative Lovemaking

Prolonging sex, delaying orgasm - for men

Men who worry about how long it takes them to come aren’t doing themselves any favours, in terms both of enjoying sex, rather than worrying the while, and of lasting longer. Prolonging sex and delaying orgasm needn’t be, and shouldn’t be, an exercise...

What’s made for your most memorable lovemaking ever?

We all have experiences of lovemaking which stand out in the memory, which we treasure and which we might hope to relive. What made those times so memorable – and how can we reach those dizzying heights again? Here are some of our suggestions – then ...

Hunkering Down – Sexily!

For many of us, Autumn is steadily arriving and the summer holiday period has drawn to a close. Every night’s a school night – or so it can seem mid-week – and as those nights draw in we tend to experience affective changes, our light-enhanced summer...

Faking orgasm

Why are some women better at pretending they are enjoying sex than actually enjoying it? Why do they have to fake orgasm - and what can be done? Help is at hand with the Lovers’ Guide.

Sex and the exotic

The sexual mysteries of the east, for the westerner, should by now long since have been exploded. We see that by imagining ourselves in the roles of Arabian, Japanese and Indian lovers, we are pursuing our own need for a sense of the exotic and doing...

Pleasuring: sensate focus

Learning to give and receive pleasure is an essential part of a loving, sexual relationship – and sensate focus training is often prescribed for those who do not feel their level of sexual pleasure is sufficient. Luckily, this is one lesson that is e...

Domination

Domination, totally controlling your partner sexually or being completely at your partner’s mercy, can be a truly liberating and incredibly exhilarating sexual experience.