Sex Play

Oral Sex Positions And Techniques: Getting It Just Right

Strange as it may seem to some, but receiving oral sex is not, for a number of us, at the top of our wish list. It may be there are insecurities. It may be we don’t like the passivity. It may be that our partner’s technique just isn’t doesn’t do it for us. We’ve heard plenty of stories from people who let their partner perform oral sex on them, letting their partner give head really as a favour to their partner, when actually it just never is hitting the right spot. Here’s how to make sure he or she really is up for receiving oral sex – and, when you’re the one on the receiving end, how to make sure it’s working for you.

Oral sex issues: in my mouth?

Favourite foreplay for me is oral sex. I love to come when my man goes down on me – and it only makes when he enters me all the more sensational. I like to give him oral, too, but don’t want him to come. Partially it’s that I want him still able to come in me (well in a condom – we’ve only been together three months) but, I must admit, partially it’s the worry of not wanting to swallow his semen. I’ve just never done it. Does that matter? I am beginning to think he’s noticing what I’m up to.. Also, can I ask if I can catch an STD from oral sex?

Vibrators vs. dildos, the orgasm guide

Which are the sex toys best set to deliver your perfect orgasm? We’ve put together the Lovers’ Guide dildo and vibrator orgasm guide to help you decide.

Sex with ice

Break the ice with your partner and send them into shivers of delight. Icy games can ignite fiery passion in the frostiest lover.

Sharing your rabbit vibrator with your partner

Although some men feel uncomfortable about their partner using sex toys as they feel threatened by them, at least as many men find the idea of watching their lover masturbate a top turn on. As such, introducing your man to your rabbit vibrator may well lead to a seriously hot night.

Sharing your rabbit vibrator with your partner

Although some men feel uncomfortable about their partner using sex toys as they feel threatened by them, at least as many men find the idea of watching their lover masturbate a top turn on. As such, introducing your man to your rabbit vibrator may well lead to a seriously hot night.

Get the buzz on sex toys

Satisfaction guaranteed. Make your love-play extra pleasurable with our guide to vibrators, dildos and other fun sex toys.

Your tips for great foreplay

Our thanks for the advice and stories you’ve sent in so far about your perfect foreplay techniques. Here’s a sample of what you’ve said – and we think there’s much more experience you have to share with other Lovers’ Guide visitors. Tell us more!

Show us your bits! The Genital Gallery

It’s your turn to be explicit! We’re building the Lovers’ Guide Genital Gallery – and we’d like to put yours on show – it’s part of a cause to show how much they vary, to celebrate them and end the “shame” that used to be attached to our glorious organs of pleasure and reproduction.

Blindfold sex play

We all touch, hear, taste and feel more intensely in the dark. By putting on a blindfold and depriving our sense of sight, we can experience a whole new range of exquisite sensations and feelings.