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Better Sex: Pleasing Him

He doesn’t like oral sex: help!

Oral sex issues

What’s going on when your male partner doesn’t like you giving him oral sex? Could it be your technique – and is there anything you can do to encourage him to like you giving him a blowjob? Advice is given.

Can I really tell my girlfriend about my sex toys?

Sharing male sex toys

A lot of guys appreciate anal stimulation, and many have enjoyed anal sex play with other guys. It’s good to be able to share our sexual experiences, desires and ways of enjoying sex with our partners. Advice is given.

Oral sex technique – pleasing him

Oral sex technique

Good oral sex for him is about lubricant, staying power and general gusto – knowing his partner loves giving him oral as much as he loves receiving it. There’s the visual appeal of seeing his penis slide in and out of his partner’s lips. And, just as for women, oral sex is an intimate, tender experience. It’s about the trust and love that give him the confidence to feel free to relax and enjoy.

Anal orgasm for men – prostate sensation

Anal orgasm - prostate sensation

Men can experience full and ejaculatory orgasm through anal, rectal and prostate stimulation alone, in the absence of direct genital touch. Then again, some men reach orgasm and ejaculate when they are urinated upon: such is the power of the mind. Even without ejaculatory orgasm, anal/rectal stimulation can enhance our experience of sex and, even when offered without genital stimulation, build up to a feeling of euphoria and release of sexual tension, which might just as well be called orgasm – and which we can experience repeatedly, again and again, with no male multiple orgasm training required.

Male multiple orgasm – you and yours

Male multiple orgasm

Multiple male orgasm is said to occur when the man is capable of separating the experience of orgasm from ejaculation. The training to achieve male multiple orgasm is an exercise in brinkmanship, muscle control and sheer will power. Once he is adept, it is said that the multi-orgasmic man may experience wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure – indefinitely, or until he grows wary or chooses to cum.

Best male masturbation technique

masturbation techniques

What with all those years practising, he probably thinks he’s got hand jobs cut and dried. You’re about to convince him differently! Try these twelve best masturbation techniques on him, and he’ll discover the true meaning of the term ‘hand-job heaven’. Before this, heaven was just a word.

Remind him what an orgasm should be like. Make the most of that moment – like this…


Orgasms may not be the ultimate objective in sex but they’re certainly a very enjoyable part of it. The best thing is that, even if you’re having great orgasms, there are always ways to make them better. Whether you’re fed up of faking (‘cos men fake it too) or just want some extra fireworks, there are a few easy ways to increase your orgasmic bliss.

Oral sex positions – pleasing him


Oral sex is probably high on his wish list, although many men, unlike women, won’t experience orgasm through oral sex alone. The positions you choose affect how he feels when you have oral sex, in terms of the physical feeling and also his state of mind.

How to seduce your husband

Seduce him!

Seducing your husband may seem a novel idea, but it can pay dividends in terms of your relationship and add an extra-special something to your sex life.

So he has a small penis? Make him feel huge!

small penis?

If your man does have a small penis – and bear in mind here that the average erect penis size is five to six inches – take these steps to rocking great sex and to convince him he is 110% man… and huge!