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Better Sex: Pleasing Her

I want sex during my period

Sex during my period

Having sex during your period is entirely natural and, to many women, highly pleasurable – they feel more aroused than at other times. What, though, when your partner isn’t keen? Advice is given.

Vaginal orgasm vs. clitoral orgasm – What’s the score?

Clitoral vs vaginal orgasms

It was Sigmund Freud who set the tone for twentieth century advice as to the superior qualities of vaginal orgasm, rather than clitoral. Vaginal orgasm, he claimed, was the more ‘mature’ orgasm – and for much of the century that was the orthodox line. Still, though, many women do indeed report that clitoral stimulation alone, and the resultant orgasm, just isn’t as good as the ‘real thing’. So what’s the truth of the matter?

Female ejaculation – a.k.a. ‘gushing’ and ‘squirting’ orgasms


Female ejaculation – or more raunchily, gushing or squirting orgasms – has been known of for centuries, is written of, for example, in medieval Indian texts, yet awareness and acceptance of the phenomenon has until recently by and large been suppressed in the west, along with other aspects of sexuality, particularly women’s sexuality. Explanations vary and are not yet conclusive, but one thing’s for sure: it feels great!

Oral sex techniques – pleasing her


For many women, your oral sex skills are much more important than either how big your penis is or how long you can ‘keep it up’ when having intercourse. Get your oral sex technique honed and you’ll be taking giant leaps to being her ideal lover.

Toys, the gift of love


Nowadays, if you ask a woman what she’d most like to receive from her lover, she’s as likely to say a sex toy as a bunch of flowers. Ever since the Jessica Rabbit first shot to fame courtesy of Sex and the City, sex toys have been a ‘must have’ item for women in the know. But when it comes to choosing the perfect sex toy for your lover, you might just need to approach things carefully.

Getting to Yes, Yes, Yes! Foreplay, Friction & Fantasy

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Get to grips with the three big ‘F’s: foreplay, friction and fantasy. Orgasms guaranteed? Almost. Try our suggestions for achieving satisfaction every time you make love, then share your orgasm secrets with the ever growing Lovers’ Guide community.

Enhancing female orgasm – you’ve told us


Our thanks for the advice and the questions you’ve sent in about enhancing female orgasm. Here’s a selection of the tips you’ve offered – and our responses to the issues you face and your areas of concern.

G-spot orgasm technique


The G-spot continues to cause much heated discussion. What is it? Where is it? Does it even exist? And just what does a girl have to do to experience those fabled, mind-blowing G-spot orgasms? We present an illustrated guide.

Female masturbation techniques

female masturbation techniques : a guide

Don’t be shy: masturbation is good for you! We explore the best female masturbation techniques to have you feeling sensual and reaching orgasm – alone or with your partner.

Becoming more sexually responsive – a self-help program for women


One of the most important components of a couple’s sexual happiness is the woman’s responsiveness. It is perfectly possible for a man to have sex with a woman who is unresponsive and therefore unaroused, but it will not give either partner much pleasure.