Spotting when your partner is ready for sex

Whether you’re looking for a casual fling or want to take your relationship from flirty to frisky, you need to know the signs that say: “Let’s do it” or “Don’t even think about it”! We’ve got some handy tips to help you spot the difference!

Express your love

Perhaps the most important communications we make in our relationships are those which express to our partner how much we love and value him or her. If we are expressing our love a lot, then it’s highly likely that all

Lift your love life

We’d like to turn here to some of the messages you’ve sent in asking about what you can do to boost your relationships and revitalize your sex lives with your partners. Many of you are telling us that you’re looking for some quick, sexy tips – so if you dip and delve in the Lovers’ Site and DVDs you should find something to take your fancy. Some of you, though, seem really to feel that your love lives aren’t what you’d really like them to be.

Mirroring body language

Opposites can and do attract, but when it comes to who we fall for, our sense of similarity usually counts for much. We are drawn when we feel we’re connected, as if, perhaps, we’ve known each other before.

Top ten Valentine’s romance treats

What are your most romantic treats for Valentine’s? What would you like? What would you love? Send us your ideas! Here’s our list so far for inspiration!!

A sexy New Year’s resolutions

New Year’s resolutions don’t all have to be about giving up the things you enjoy. Instead, opt for a more positive approach and resolve to boost your love life over the coming months with the following resolutions:

Styles of loving

In matters of partner selection, it hardly needs saying that different men pursue different qualities, but can be worth remembering that different people desire and love in different ways. Reflecting on how you love, and how others might love, can be beneficial when seeking a partner, or merely a date.

Hitting the scene – and thriving!

It can be like swimming with sharks when you first hit the scene, the sprawl of clubs and bars in whichever big city you’re nearest to. When you enter the bar, all eyes turn. They could be doing rather more than simply undressing you with their eyes – while they summon to their aid their long-rehearsed, terrible chat-lines and flex their paws. What are they looking at? Chicken.

One-on-one? Commitments

It’s the younger who often assume they’re in a one-on-one relationship just because they’ve had sex once. Expectations run sky-high and are often unsustainable – though sometimes our earliest relationships do indeed last into the long-term. For those with a little more experience, the various commitments made with another person take time and need to be discussed.

Sex tips and treats for long-term couples

Remember when your relationship was full of loaded glances, hours of bed rumpling frivolity, sensual dinners and luxurious baths together? Are you still lucky enough to be in that state? If so, congratulations – and you’re a lucky person. If not, there’s no need to worry.