Pleasing Her

Dusting away the winter blues

There’s nothing worse than winter to dampen your desire. It’s all cold outside and all you want to do is snuggle in front of the TV eating soup and being cosy.

Sex during pregnancy for lesbians

Just like heterosexual couples, many lesbian couples worry about the safety of sexual activity during pregnancy. Strange as it may seem, doctors once thought lesbians were more likely to have miscarriages than other women, but there is no reason to avoid intimacy while you’re expecting.

Enhancing sensuality in your lovemaking

Sensuality: ‘unrestrained indulgence in sensual pleasures’. The very definition just conjures up images of opulence and fulfilment, which is just what lovemaking should be.

Sharing masturbation

Masturbation amongst women has historically been something quite secretive and taboo. Many women have, throughout the ages, been made to feel ashamed of it and only in the last few years have women started to ‘come out’ in terms of enjoying masturbation and actually admitting it.

Experiencing the elusive orgasm

Having sex is all about the orgasm right? Wrong. If you’re lucky enough never to have experienced you or your girlfriend not being able to experience orgasm, then you probably don’t really give it any thought. It’s something that just happens as a result of that wonderful, mind-blowing sex you’re having.

Achieving female ejaculation

Female ejaculation is nothing new. The Greek philosopher Aristotle noted its existence, Italian anatomist Renaldus Columbus referred to female ejaculate while he was explaining the function of the clitoris and, in the 17th century, the Dutch anatomist Regnier de Graaf wrote a book about female anatomy and spoke of female fluid “rushing out” and “coming in one gush” during sexual excitement.

Can’t achieve orgasm?

It’s easy to assume that when you start dating someone and sleeping together that the sex is going to be fantastic. You think you’ve met an amazing girl and so does she, so why wouldn’t it follow that you are going to have amazing sex?

Three’s A Crowd?

Well, the most important part here is that you don’t feel comfortable.
While threesomes may seem like a good idea in fantasies and in the bedroom, they very rarely transfer to the real world particularly successfully.

Sensual massage for lesbians

It would be safe to say that there is no right or wrong when it comes to sensual massage. It really is something that is down to the two people involved. And whilst it is primarily for the benefit of the person on the receiving end, this does not necessarily mean that the person giving the massage can’t enjoy it too!

Penetration for lesbians

There’s no getting away from it: penetration is important to many women. While a lot find it difficult to deal with, the ideal that enjoying penetration means that you are, in fact, straight is nearly a distant memory.