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Lesbian

Bondage for lesbians

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Generally, mentioning to someone that you would be interested in partaking in bondage with someone, can tend to send them screaming for the door – or edging slightly nervously around on their seat.

The sex positions workout

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It’s all too easy to become complacent in a relationship. Yes it’s all rather wonderful when you first meet – you’re having sex everywhere possible in every which way known to womankind, but we all know, after a while, things can get a bit formulaic.

Sex treats for lesbians

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Are you feeling that your sex life is getting you down? Is it all a little too dreary and needs a good kick up the proverbial? Take a look at our top tips for getting things back into shape.

Do lesbians have anal sex?

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The answer to this, of course, is yes – but not all of them! Anal sex does occur between lesbians more frequently than people think. It is only once you start asking around that you realise it is actually more common than first thought.
Although there are some women who do not like to have penetrative sex of any kind, there are those that enjoy both vaginal and anal sex with either fingers or toys.

Control in a mixed age relationship

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My older partner never wants me to take the sexual initiative and turn her on. She is so controlling.

UK police warn of teenage ‘sexting’

A worrying number of teenagers are swapping intimate or sexually explicit photos, called “sexts”, on their mobiles, police say. Related Links http://news.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/hi/technology/newsid_8181000/8181443.stm

Dusting away the winter blues

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There’s nothing worse than winter to dampen your desire. It’s all cold outside and all you want to do is snuggle in front of the TV eating soup and being cosy.

Quality, not quantity – ensuring each time is better than the last

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Three words that often haunt a relationship – lesbian bed death. It happens and when it does, it can cause major problems in a relationship.

Sex during pregnancy for lesbians

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Just like heterosexual couples, many lesbian couples worry about the safety of sexual activity during pregnancy. Strange as it may seem, doctors once thought lesbians were more likely to have miscarriages than other women, but there is no reason to avoid intimacy while you’re expecting.

Compatibility

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If you’re thinking of a long term relationship, here’s how to judge if you really are going to be right for each other beyond the first three months of loved up bliss.