Gay Sex Play

Big Gay Sex Toys: Because Him

While a good long deep hard sex sesh might strike your average bossy bottom as a basic human right, the burdens, the performance expectations, thusly placed on the willingest top might seem insuperable. We’ve all been there: his Yippie-Ki-Yay legs slung back to his shoulders, an ass simply cavernous. (But hey, he’s cute.) Definite sense of our humble seven inch being not quite enough to satisfy this one. (We’ve all been there, when they start screaming: ‘I want two cocks in me!’) Solution: big gay sex toys: dildo fun. Turn him to water first, and only at the end, sublime, stuff your cock in him.

Power bottoming – big gay sex toys

The biggest gay sex toys, just like a really huge cock, deliver intense anal stimulation as well as prostate stimulation and the feeling of your colon really being full. While smaller, less girthy toys can be directed to and worked around different areas of arousal, the big toys seem to hit every sense at once; they can overwhelm you blissfully. The question, though, can be: how do you get the darn things in?

Masturbation with male sex toys: using butt plugs

We’re often told that butt plugs enhance masturbation both by stimulating the anus and by exerting pressure from inside on the prostate, the male G spot. Result: bigger, harder erections and a more intense experience of orgasm. There’s truth in this, though the reality is a little more complicated. To get the most from masturbation with sex toys, it can help to bear in mind that the toys change the quality of the feelings associated with arousal and orgasm; it isn’t just a case of getting more of the same thing.

Simulated penetration – how and why

Simulated penetration can feel strange, as if it isn’t ‘really’ sex, more a poor relation – as if you should really be doing something more. It can certainly lead to more, but can also be enjoyed in its own right, whether as cock-rubbing or with one partner’s penis sliding between the recipient partner’s thighs and buttocks.

Cock worship: a hands-on guide

Your cock doesn’t always have to go in whichever orifice seems nearest and most convenient. Imagine: no top, no bottom, just two guys having a great time jacking off. Here’s how it goes.

Fun for three?

There is one golden rule about threesomes: this is about sex. It is not about love – save in that general ‘love-for-all-gay-man, we-are-tribe’ sort of thing. If you can keep love and sex separate, read on.

The dos and don’ts of sex with your best friend

There’s something about best friends. You love them, you share everything with them, but you don’t really want to have hot gay sex. Except maybe once.

Pre-AIDS erotica – pros and cons

‘My fat, ten foot cock pushed hard into the boy’s tight, virgin ass…’ ‘His boy-hole was moist already…’ ‘Without another word he leapt on top of me and I watched in wonder as my fat, hard ten-incher slipped easily inside his drooling asshole…’ ‘I strained to break free and felt his fat, hard purple helmet aimed right up against my crack. “Please,” I whimpered…’ You know the genre? Does it make you giggle, make you embarrassed, or does it make you hard?

Nipple Play

Have you tried it? Do you like it? For many men, the nipples are hot-wired straight to the groin. And this isn’t a toll route.

The great outdoors

Al fresco sex is fantastic. We don’t mean trundling around in the bushes of your local common – the name of which says it all. We mean you and your partner getting out somewhere, where you’re more or less confident you won’t be seen, and feeling more naturally exposed than you ever will over the kitchen table, or in your bedroom.