Better Gay Sex

Happy talk

At times it can seem there’s way too much silence in sex. It’s almost as if we’re afraid to give voice to what we feel and what we want. When you’re flirting, when you’re getting off, and until you lose every capacity to speak, keep the lines of comm...

Bottom and top

The use the terms ‘bottom’ and ‘top’ can suggest an unbridgeable gulf between those who prefer the respective roles. It can seem rather as if, within gay sexuality, there is a further division of sexualities, where the all-male equivalent of the batt...