Better Gay Sex

Simultaneous orgasms

Anal sex and simultaneous orgasms might not often be thought close bedfellows. One man comes into the other, right? And that other – well, his pleasure is different; if he wants to come too, if the prostate stimulation alone doesn’t do it, he’ll just...

Hugging

Even now, with the ongoing gay liberation movement allowing men more and more freedom to escape from what we might term traditional masculine roles, it can be difficult for some men fully to accept the tenderness, sensitivity and emotional vulnerabil...

Giving good anal

Whether you're about to be top for the first time or you're already used to being the one in the saddle, it's worth taking time to think about how you can make it a thoroughly pleasurable experience for you and your partner!

Lights Out?

Do you want semi-darkness and mystery or the glaring light of day? It’s a shame you can’t really have both at once, since each has its advantages.

Massage

On its own or as an aspect of foreplay, massage is the royal road to intimacy. It’s free, lasts as long as you like, and you don’t even need to be expert – though, with a little practice, you soon will be. Take the time to explore and enjoy each othe...

Oral Sex

The prime directive when performing oral sex is absolutely to want it – and that’s for as long as it takes. It isn’t a chore or a favour. It isn’t just something you give him. You’re pleasuring yourself as well. You’re giving your mouth a treat. And ...

Dress the buns

Is white always right? Do you lift and separate or let it hang low? What exactly are you saying with your regular brand? Dress your crotch and buns in a way he’ll appreciate. How best can you turn him on?