So many sex positions to choose from! Too many? You should certainly have fun exploring the lot – not all at once, mind! But if you’re stuck, or not in the mood to experiment, and you want a sure fire way to keep a man heppy, try one or all of these.
Generally speaking, men tend to enjoy positions that give them a good view or deep penetration. ‘Doggy style’ satisfies both criteria. The woman gets on her hands and knees or lies on her front. The man kneels behind her, grasps her hips and penetrates her.
Some men prefer to put their legs between their partners’ thighs whilst others keep them outside her legs. If the woman keeps her thighs together, her vagina will be tighter.
This position gives the man a lot of freedom to explore. He can cup his partner’s breasts and play with her nipples as he thrusts. He can also play with her clitoris – or she can play with herself. To heighten the visual appeal, the woman can pull her buttocks apart while he thrusts so that he can see all her most intimate parts.
Missionary with raised legs
Another position that’s great for deep penetration is missionary – with a twist. The woman raises her legs and places them over her partner’s shoulders. The further back her legs are, the deeper the penetration will be as it lengthens the vagina. Many men enjoy seeing their partner’s face during making love too.
If the man is particularly large, he should move slowly until he’s certain that his partner is comfortable. To get right up to the hilt, the woman should start by lying on her back at the edge of the bed. She then spreads her legs, putting one on the floor. The man lies on top of her with one leg on the floor and the other kneeling on the bed. This gives maximum thrust.
The Reverse Cowgirl gives ‘bum men’ a visual treat. It takes a bit of practice to make sure you get the angle right but it’s worth it. The woman sits astride the man and faces his feet, to straddle him ‘backwards’. She then puts her hands on his knees or on either side of him for leverage. He gets a great view of her buttocks and she gets great G-spot stimulation. The woman should move slowly in this position so that the penis doesn’t bend back too far.
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