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Anal dildo sex play for men

Anal dildo sex play offers a huge sense of sensual satisfaction, through the nerve-endings packed around the anus and, in the man, stimulation of the prostate, the male G-spot.

Exploring anal dildo sex, choose an appropriate size of dildo. Take care not to damage your anus, which can carefully be pleasurably stretched but can tear if forced. Use plenty of a good sexual lubricant – and one that will not damage the dildo. For anal sex play, the dildo should have a flanged base, or the moulded testicles at the base, to ensure that it cannot be sucked inside. It must also be clean, to avoid bacterial infection, and smooth, because the lining of the rectum is delicate.

If you would like to be really clean inside for anal dildo play, you might wish to douche first, but given a healthy diet, with sufficient fibre, and no intestinal complaints, going to the lavatory beforehand should be enough to avoid soiling.

Whether alone or with your partner, you might find you need to relax your anus first before inserting your dildo. If your fingernails are smooth, use a lubricated finger to do this, massaging around the outside of the anus then dipping a finger or two inside.

If your anus tightens when you then insert the dildo, bear against it, as if expelling faeces, to open yourself up. Once the dildo is inserted, it should be easy to let any remaining resistance go and relax around it.

As you explore inside yourself and thrust the dildo, keep moving the dildo at a pace that remains fully pleasurable. You might find that your sensation builds gradually. As the sensation mounts, and as you experience what has been called anal orgasm, keep riding that wave of pleasure; keep stimulating yourself to maintain the feeling of orgasm. You might find that these experiences of intense anal orgasm occur periodically, becoming more intense and closely packed together for a while and then waning when your body and your mind have had enough. If you are using your dildo on your partner, pay careful attention to how his feelings vary and develop.

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